Real Queens Fix Each Other’s Crowns: The Women Who Refused to Gatekeep
Let’s be real: we’ve all encountered a "Queen Bee" at least once—the woman who finally gets a seat at the table and then proceeds to pull the ladder up behind her. It’s giving 2004 mean girl/burnbook energy, and frankly, we’re over it.
This Women’s History Month, we’re celebrating the women who lift other women, not those who made a name for themselves and kept it there. We’re talking about the women who realized that "making it" is a lot more fun when you bring your besties (and a few strangers) with you. I listened to a podcast recently and the guest said “anytime I can put people in a position to win, that’s what we gone do” and that is the drive I look for in women. We can help each other. Let’s talk about women who have done just that!
The Architect: Annie Turnbo Malone
Before the world knew Madam C.J. Walker, there was Annie Turnbo Malone. If we’re talking about women who didn't gatekeep their secrets to success, Annie is the blueprint.
But most people don’t know just how deep her impact really goes…
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- Who she was: A chemistry whiz and business mogul who founded Poro College. She revolutionized hair care for Black women at a time when the "beauty industry" barely acknowledged they existed.
- The Lift: Annie didn't just sell products; she created an educational system. She hired a young, struggling sales agent named Sarah Breedlove—who the world would later knew as Madam C.J. Walker. Annie gave her the tools, the formulas, and the business model that allowed Sarah to eventually branch out and build her own empire.
- The Vibe: Annie proved that being a pioneer means nothing if you aren't willing to teach the next person how to blaze their own trail. She didn't fear competition; she fueled a movement.
Taking the torch from Annie, Madam C.J. Walker took the "no gatekeeping" mission to a global scale.
- What she did: She scaled those hair care techniques into a massive empire, but her real flex wasn't her bank account—it was her payroll.
- The Lift: She trained over 40,000 "Lelia College" graduates. She gave thousands of women a way to earn their own money, leave domestic service, and fund their own dreams.
- The Vibe: She didn't just build an empire; she built a franchise for every woman who was told "no."
The Modern Icon: Issa Rae
If “creating your own lane” was a person, it’s Issa Rae. From Awkward Black Girl to HBO mogul, she’s stayed rooted in her truth—and her community.
- What she does: Through Hoorae, she’s building more than shows—she’s building infrastructure for the next generation of creators.
- The Lift: Issa made “networking across” a strategy. She partnered with people on her level, grew together, and turned collaboration into a whole ecosystem where everybody wins.
- The Vibe: Sending the elevator back down—then holding the door open.
The "Anti-Gatekeep" Check-In
We’ve all seen the "Girl Boss" era come and go, but the Girl Power movement is about something deeper: Radical Generosity. It’s the opposite of gatekeeping. It’s the "Oh, you like my lipstick? Here’s the brand, the shade, and the discount code" energy—but for our careers and lives.
"If you have a torch, you don't lose your light by lighting someone else's; you just make the room brighter."
Now It’s Your Turn
We want to hear from the community. Let's turn the comments into a masterclass on uplifting others.
- What is one thing you do to uplift another woman? (Is it a LinkedIn recommendation? A "hey, you're undercharging" text? A genuine compliment to a stranger?)
- How often are you "the ladder"? Do you make it a point to mentor someone once a month, or is it a daily habit of sharing information?


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